LETS TALK ABOUT FLIRTING TECHNIQUES AND CONVERSATION STARTERS! (02-17-2015)
Chivalry – For men especially, chivalry is key in flirting. Opening doors, pulling out chairs and minding your manners with “please” and “thank you. ” This is not only a sign of maturity but also respect
Flattery – Since flirting is based on attracting others by making them feel good, giving sincere compliments is the oldest trick in the book. Simple comments such as saying, “Nice hat” can make a person feel good and in return create positive feelings towards you
Props – A prop that draws attention to you is sure to bring about an opportunity for flirting. Things such as: • Carrying a book with an eye-catching title • Wearing a hat that suits your style • Pin a special button on your clothes • Take your pet for a walk, no matter what it is • Apply an outrageous bumper sticker to your car • Wear clothes with unusual logos • Drive a unique car or bike
Playful Conversation – Sometimes knowing what to say can be the hardest part of flirting but knowing what to say ahead of time can make all the difference. Pick a few funny lines or sincere open-ended compliments that can lead to a conversation. Remember to be light-hearted and fun, never take yourself too seriously on the initial flirting encounter.
Romantic Reminders – Beyond first-time flirting encounters are the romantic reminders. Incorporating romantic reminders such as sweet notes, seductive poems, charming emails or thoughtful voice messages are great ways of flirting to keep A RELATIONSHIP new and exciting
FLIRTATIOUS CONVERSATION STARTERS:
Friendly Approach- – Iʼm really kind of shy, but I saw you and knew I had to get over myself and meet you. – Excuse me, can you tell me the best way to meet someone like you? – I just wanted to come over and introduce myself, because I have the feeling that Iʼll see you again. – You look like someone I should know.
Seductive Approach – You smell really good. What scent are you wearing? – Werenʼt you in the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue? – Didnʼt I see you on the cover of GQ magazine? – I hope you donʼt mind, but I just had to let you know that you are the sexiest person here.
Humorous Approach – Iʼm tired of people wanting me for my brain and not my body. Can you help me? – Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend with a Mustang? (name your car) Well, you do now. – Hi, my name is Chance. Do I have one? – Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I have to walk by you again? – Iʼve lost my phone number, can I borrow yours? – Hi, Iʼm Mr. Right. Someone said you were looking for me. – My dog would like to meet your dog, but she’s very shy.